Teaching Good Manners To Kids Is Not That Hard

l have experienced one or more incidents ofmy arms and legs. I immediately begun
children crying and whining while their motherscomplaining while my mother was about to begin
have been searching the department store forapplying the lotion, when my father turned to me
that "fabulous" pair of shoes they saw on aand said "I know you hate it. I do too. But, first
television show. The truth is that you werenobody here wants to hear you complain. They
annoyed and although you know that this was notcame to relax and enjoy the sun. Second, we
the child's fault, you secretly disliked the kid andhave explained to you that the sun is dangerous
even more his mother, as she allowed it to annoyand your skin is still very white. If you do not let
everyone and did not pay attention, as sheyour mother finish the application, you will later
should, to her toddler. That was rude and kids canhurt all over and you will not be able to come
be taught not to be rude.with us again here tomorrow."
I recall an incident that happened a long time agoI immediately stopped. I still remember my
when I was still a child. My parents took me tofather's face. He was not yelling nor threatening
the beach since this was the only way to coolme. He just stated the simple truth. My skin would
down that hot summer day; the temperature inburn and as I looked at other families on the
Greece can reach very high levels during thebeach I realized that kids who have burned their
summer. As we reached the point that wouldskin, because they did not allow their parents to
host our existence for the rest of the day, Iprotect them, were miserably looking at other
remember my mother kneeling to assist me getkids playing while they had to stay under the
rid of my clothes and help me prepare beforeshadow of an umbrella and do nothing.
running loose to play under the sun. I had to wearWhether your child has a serious concern or is
my lovely pink pair of plastic shoes, in order tojust bored and tired, you can help it understand
avoid any injuries, my hat, which I thought it wasthat crying and screaming will not assist its
rather funny, and a generous portion ofsituation. By realizing that if you treat your child as
sunscreen on my skin, to protect it from burning.if you were speaking to an adult, using simpler
That last part of the beach "ritual" I hated. I didwording and examples they can relate to of
not like the fact that I was feeling my skin beingcourse, your kid will mature sooner and respect
greasy or that water drops seemed to stack onothers peace and quite; yours included.